Treat Your Premature Ejaculation, Give Your Partner the Best Sex She's Ever Had,
and Experience A Better Relationship!

Getting treatment for premature ejaculation can be a challenge, because it is one of the more embarrassing sexual problems. If you don't want to see a therapist in person, you can find many supposed cures for rapid ejaculation on the internet, but sadly few of these treatments live up to the claims made for them by the operators of the websites. They range from the most outrageous scams - including mysterious concoctions based on coconut oil and herbal potions and treatments of unspecified and dubious origin - all the way thru' to the genuine and really effective treatments for premature ejaculation used by professional sex therapists. Those powerful and effective treatments are the ones explained on this website. This is the easiest way to learn how to last longer during sex! Let me make that clear - the treatments for premature ejaculation that you will find on this website are the very same ones you'd get if you went to see a professional sex therapist in search of a way to improve your staying power. We offer the most up-to-date, simple, and above all, powerfully effective treatments available for curing premature ejaculation. And you'll find them right here!

Treating Premature Ejaculation Yourself Is Effective, Easy, and Simple!

The majority of men ejaculate too quickly for their partner's liking. I have cured many men with premature ejaculation, but even so I'm constantly amazed by how few men have the level of sexual self-control that would let them give their partner total and complete sexual satisfaction. Indeed, I'd say that premature ejaculation is a condition that occurs in almost 100% of men, and it spoils or reduces almost all couples' sexual pleasure by depriving them of at least some of the sexual pleasure they might otherwise be getting.

Of course what you think of as premature ejaculation might be different to what the next couple think of as premature ejaculation. If you and your partner are happy with very short periods of vaginal thrusting, it may not matter that you come within minutes of penetration. But there's no doubt that most couples would get a lot more sexual pleasure if they could enjoy intercourse for longer, and the man could last longer in bed.

You'll hear a lot about treatments for premature ejaculation that involve drugs: SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) are a class of drug used to treat depression. SSRIs raise the level of the neurotransmitter serotonin outside the cells by interfering with its uptake into the presynaptic cell, which increases the level of serotonin available to bind to the postsynaptic receptor. They bind in varying degrees with the other monoamine transporters, but have very little tendency to bind to the noradrenaline and dopamine transporters.

SSRIs have been accused of causing several types of sexual problems: these include anorgasmia (inability to reach orgasm), erectile dysfunction, and diminished libido. Research has shown that such effects occur in less than one patient in ten, but there is also evidence that this figure is too low. When the SSRI treatment is stopped, patients gradually recover their sexual function. In particular, the inhibition of ejaculation will spontaneously reverse when the medication is stopped: these facts have led to the proposal that SSRIs can be used as a treatment for premature ejaculation. It is believed that the sexual dysfunction is caused by a reduction in dopamine. Should any reversal of the effects of SSRI's be needed then this can be achieved by administering bupropion, buspirone, methylphenidate, mirtazapine, amphetamine, pramipexole or ropinirole.

Another treatment method for premature ejaculation, which you will find prominently listed many times on the internet, is "herbal tablets". There is, as far as I am aware, no herbal treatment which will effectively control premature ejaculation. This statement is based on twenty years' experience of treating men who wish to extend the time for which they can enjoy sex.

Another website offers a premature ejaculation treatment based on coconut oil. Rubbing coconut oil on your penis is likely to feel very nice, but it isn't going to cure your premature ejaculation. (In fact, it might well speed up your ejaculation because of the sensuous and stimulating quality of the compounds in the oil.)

For men with a short frenulum, there are several options available to control the physical causes of rapid or early ejaculation - frenuloplasty, stretching the frenulum, and self-help treatment programs such as the one on this website.

Hypnosis is an interesting option for the treatment of premature ejaculation. Hypnosis addresses directly the subconscious mind, where many fears and inhibitions will inhibit sexual responsiveness and can lead to premature ejaculation. (In essence, the cause of premature ejaculation or rapid ejaculation is (a) being too aroused and (b) unaware of this fact, so that a man approaches his point of ejaculatory inevitability before (a) he wishes to do so and (b) before he is aware of doing so. He therefore finds his ejaculation occurring almost before he is aware he is going to come. Hypnosis as a treatment for premature ejaculation can produce a more confident state of mind and reduce anxiety, so to that extent it is likely to give a man a certain amount of control. However, in my own experiments, I have found that the average improvement in time for which sex lasts in men who try hypnosis is only of the order of 15-20%. This may be helpful in boosting confidence, but it is not a complete cure, nor a particularly effective treatment.

So what are you to do if you are a man with a tendency to rapid ejaculation? The answer - as you may expect from me, since I have experience of treating men with professional sexual therapy techniques - is to use an adaptation of the PE treatment that you would be given by a professional sexual therapist. This is a system whereby you treat yourself to a series of relaxed, enjoyable sexual training sessions, which are designed to help you become more familiar with the signals that your body is sending you when you are approaching orgasm.

Before we go any further, though, let's think about the definition of premature ejaculation. Various definitions have been proposed, for example: the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration more than fifty percent of the time; but the truth is that any such definition is inadequate as a basis for treatment since it leaves out the subjective element - what may seem like a suitable case for treatment for one couple may not bother another at all. So my definition is this: where a man consistently ejaculates before he or his sexual partner have achieved sexual satisfaction - however they may define that. The key factors are: a lack of control and a lack of satisfaction.

This is something you can cure easily, and it won't take much effort. If you follow the treatment for premature ejaculation explained on this website, you can develop complete ejaculatory control easily and quickly!

Treatment For Premature Ejaculation With Professional Sex Therapy - At Home!

The great news is that you can control your ejaculation with a fairly straightforward and easy system of treatment at home. Treating sexual problems is much more simple than many people think, especially if the problem is not rooted in deep-seated  emotional or sexual trauma. (If it is, you may need the help of a professional psychotherapist and sexual therapist.)

I'd also like to emphasize that it isn't really that hard to treat premature ejaculation. You can practice the exercises - including a technique known as Sensate Focus - at home with your partner between two and three times a week. This will represent a total investment of about one and a half hours a week, which you'll need to maintain for about four months or so until your sexual stamina allows you to last much longer during sex.

• this treatment for premature ejaculation will not require any painful squeezing of the penis before you ejaculate
• it's not a treatment that requires abstinence from sex
• the treatment is easy and pleasant and will actually bring you and your partner closer both during sex and afterwards in your relationship generally
• you can increase and enhance your communication skills by using this treatment
• treatment can be done when you wish at any time during the week
• sex becomes more intimate, closer and more relaxing
• the treatment will also reduce any anxiety you may have around sex
• the treatment will begin to produce an improvement in your staying power almost immediately when you start the exercises
• after three months of treatment, you should be able to last for twenty minutes with small pauses during sex to allow your arousal levels to drop
• there is no squeezing of the pubococcygeal muscles during sex, which is not an effective treatment for premature ejaculation anyway
• lastly, you will not be required to use any kind of anesthetic preparation during sex, so you will not have a numb penis, and your partner will not have a numb vagina!

In essence the treatment method that we are describing here is a system of training, during which you learn how to recognize when you are going to approach the point of ejaculation, and then you learn what you can do to stop yourself getting more aroused - in other words, you gain control over your ejaculation, and you will gain the ability to prevent your ejaculation occurring until you wish to let go and come, shooting your ejaculate with force and a powerful orgasm. That may well be after your female partner has enjoyed her own orgasm.

In case the significance of this is not clear I should repeat it: you have the ability to control when you ejaculate - you have the ability to decide and choose when you ejaculate. In fact, that is the natural way to make love, the correct way to last longer during sex, and that is the effect of this treatment. You will be able to choose when to ejaculate during sex.

Sex Can Last As Long As You Wish

It's a powerful image, being able to find out how to last longer in bed and find out how to last longer during sex. Think how you will feel when you have cured your premature ejaculation, when you have the ability to thrust in your partner's vagina for as long as you desire. And more importantly your partner will be able to enjoy vaginal intercourse with you for as long as she wishes. And you will be able to provide it!

Yet none of this is difficult. We provide complete instructions for the treatment of PE, so that you can follow it easily and effortlessly. Your goal of long lasting intercourse will happen long before you could even imagine it being your reality.....

....and every step of the way is described in beautifully photographed detail with two models who have used this treatment methodology to cure their own premature ejaculation. By the way  - that's why I know this system works: it has been used by hundreds of people, and they have all described massive improvements in the duration and enjoyment of sex.

The photos, of course, mean that you can see what you need to do to improve your sexual stamina and increase the length of time that sex lasts. This is our advantage over any treatment method described elsewhere: we show you in words and pictures as well as telling you how the system can cure your sexual problems!

Finally, it's worth pointing out that these are natural exercises. They build on your body's own capacity and desire to be an effective and long-lasting lover. There is nothing forced, unnatural or difficult about them.

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